Hi Thelma,
"the surface of the
granite top feels sandy"
This could be one of two things. If you have installed a tile backsplash with sanded
grout it will "shed" sand particles for a while until it's stabilized.
More likely it is a somewhat common problem created during the sawing of the slabs from the block. The "swerf" is the slurry created by the blade and in some cases it is forced into the fissures of the stone if not enough water is used. It will eventually go away but you can speed up the process by washing your tops with lots of water and using a wet vac on the problem areas. You can then reseal those problem areas if necessary. Penetrating
sealer will not lock in the sandy residue unless you are using a cheap topical
sealer(not recommended).
Just a total shot in the dark here:
The orange discoloration could be areas with some rust deposits or possibly some unusual chemical reaction if the applicator (rag, sponge, etc) was used previously with another chemical (cleaners, etc). Is it possible steel wool was used at some point and left steel particles that were not cleaned away. I don't use steel wool myself but some folks occasionally use fine steel wool to clean
granite and in some cases restores a little shine. Is the
sealer water based?
It would definitely be helpful if we knew the name of the stone, the
sealer, and photos would be great.
Hope that helps.
Tony